FERTILITY A BOON-PRESERVE IT

Modern life styles and conditions compelled men to interfere with nature; the result he stands alienated from it as otherwise, infertility would not have been a problem of such magnitude as on today.  Concepts of conceiving techniques like IVF have become necessary to save mankind from this peril

In the year 2008 WHO declared infertility as a disease, followed by American Society of Reproductive Medicine making it mandatory for Insurance Companies to honor the claims for fertility restoration treatments. In urban societies, that are more susceptible to modern lifestyle, percentage of infertile couples is reaching the level of 15 to 20%. Infertility may be temporary or permanent.  It can be total or partial. Depending on the nature of it treatments are suggested.  However, if the prospective couples give a little more attention to their lifestyles and routines, this unfortunate situation can be averted.

Food Habits & exercises: Insist on natural foods containing plenty of minerals and vitamins. Avoid foods and beverages containing preservatives, artificial coloring and flavoring agents. Avoid eating meat of hormone injected animals and vegetables containing pesticide residues.

Engage in a moderate exercise regime enabling to make body mind and fit.

Creating conducive work atmosphere: Avoid stress of any kind. Evaluate the work atmosphere and try to make it healthy.   Problems at your work bear direct relation to comfort level and enjoyment of life of which sex play vital role.  And it is a fact that in case of less frequency chances of infertility is more.

Smoking & drinking: Excessive indulgence is bad for both the partners.  It may lead to low sperm count in male coupled with erectile dysfunction.  In case of female frigidity may be the result.

Medical check ups: In case of difficulty in conceiving after a considerable period of cohabitation, couple should go for preliminary check ups.  For male, infection in reproductive system including a urinary track infection may lead to infertility.  In case of female, it is hormone imbalances, fibroids, infection in fallopian tubes etc., are the cause of sterility.  All these can be reversed by medical interference and a timely check up is needed for these. 

 Above described precautions are elementary measures one should adopt for a healthy conception and if one cannot achieve the goal in spite of this, then only drastic measures are required. 

How to remember your wedding

Ten ways to keep your wedding memorable

     Wedding is an important event happening in everybody’s life.  Every body cherishes to make it memorable.  There are ways to make your wedding more memorable.  Step by step you have to follow the directions if you want to rewind the entire episode with sweet memories. Wedding is a ceremony you want to make more colorful so that it is remembered forever throughout your life.  It is an occasion for a get-together of near and dears and a happy occasion to receive guests and relatives and seek their blessings. I think the following arrangements will make it very pleasant and memorable:

1)      Selecting a suitable partner:  First and foremost of the steps is to select a suitable partner for the wedding. It may be a love marriage or arranged one depending upon your choice.  But an ideal couple seated on the podium will be an attraction.

2)      Arrangement of venue:  You should choose a convenient place for all participants with no traffic restrictions and sufficient parking space. There should be sufficient space to accommodate all invitees with comfortable seating arrangements giving uninterrupted views.

3)      Invitation letter: You should take care with invitation letter suitably worded and attractive.  You should never forget to proof read it before finalizing as a printers error will create chaos.

4)      Celebrity guest: Never forget to include celebrity guests as their inclusion makes the function more memorable. You will get photo opportunity with them and it will be useful on future occasions.

5)      Event managers:  There are professionals much experienced and never forget to engage them as they will look after the arrangements in detail without errors and omissions.

6)      Photography & videos: You should engage experienced photographers more reasonable with their budgets.  No doubt, there are greedy lots trying to dry their hay when sun shines. You should avoid them.  Always make it a point to brief them before the event with instructions to cover event by even.

7)      Wedding dresses:  You can either choose designer suits or made to fit dresses but the material used should be appealing and suitable to weather conditions and the couple should be comfortable in their dresses.  The dress so chosen should in way interfere with the picture quality of photos.

8)      Arrangements of food and beverages:  There should be sufficient choice for the guests and experienced caterer known for his expertise should be engaged. It should rather be seasonal and acceptable to all including children.

9)      Budget allocation:  You should make arrangements for sufficient fund well in advance and allocate funds for each and every item in proper manner.  Financial management is a skilled job and you should take advice from experienced elderly members of your family and it will enable you to cover up any shortages with their assistance in case of emergency.

10)  Honeymoon: Last but least, it should be a dream place chosen with consultation with your new partner.  A crowded and thickly populated destination will make you uncomfortable and the very purpose of the trip is defeated.  It is usually an occasion the couple wants to remain aloof for peaceful interaction. So the selection of place should be wisely done.

     I hope I have I have covered all points here and following the above steps you can make your wedding event memorable and pleasant. After all nobody wants to make a retake and it is therefore very important you never miss the opportunity to make it enjoyable.  I wish all aspirants success.

How to make Mathematics more interesting?

The complaint often associated with the study of Mathematics is that it is a dry subject and students find it less interesting and difficult to memorize.  Many students who are otherwise brilliant fail in examinations due to their inability to grasp mathematical lessons and perform well. Academicians all over the world could not find out ways to make it interesting and attractive to students. During interaction with some students I came across some novel ideas spread among them to make math’s study more interesting. They either personify digits and integers or add up puzzles to make it more memorable.   Some examples are given below which force us think how their brain works.

1)Newton asked his wife:  How do I look?

    Ans: You are  tanC/SinC or SinC/CosC/SinC or 1/Cos C = SecC  or Sexy

2)Power = work/time -- : time =work/power but knowledge= power: and time is

    money. So money=work/knowledge: if knowledge is 0, money = work/0=infinity.

    So why to acquire knowledge or study when you earn infinite amount of money

     With 0 knowledge?

3)Is 3=1? See this.

    Let x be =y:then 2x=2y: or 3x-x=3y-y:or 3x-3y=x-y: or 3(x-y)=x-y ie., 3=1

    What wonderful ideas!

Is Silver more attractive than Gold

This is to reiterate my earlier contention that investing in silver is more attractive than investing in gold. People who have read my earlier blog on June 24^th may note that I have predicted appreciation of silver vs. gold.  At that time I did not imagine that extend of appreciation would go to the present level. Gold has reached $1300 level from 1250 then where as silver shot out to $22-23 level from $19 that time.  You can calculate percentage wise appreciation.  The rally is likely to continue in view of the persistent demand from China and people who have sufficient fund to spare should not miss this opportunity.

steps to avoid divorce

How to avoid divorces?

The best way to avoid divorce is not to marry.  But that is not a solution or remedy to the much discussed problem of divorce tendencies among the younger generation. So how to avoid divorces?  In certain cases even the middle aged or the older ones contemplate separation.   It is often said “ married in haste to repent at leisure”. It is true that people who make hasty decisions without proper assessment and case study land in trouble.  One should understand that he or she is making most vital decision of ones life time as it is not easy to change wife or husband as they change their motor vehicle

If a marriage occurs all for a wrong reason, the chances of it lasting longer are far remote. For example, if marriage were for mere sexual pleasure and to escape from controls it would be a failure. Similarly a marriage to legitimize a pregnancy or with undue influence and pressure is not likely to survive for long. Sometimes people enter into marriage for financial security without proper interest in the partner. Such marriages too would not last long.

 what should be the ideal condition for a proper marriages

The couple should have attained the age of maturity with a healthy mental and physical condition. Partners should be willing to share the life of each other with proper understanding. They should be ready to tolerate shortfalls of their partners and be always willing to help their partners to fulfill their desires. They should attain sound financial conditions enough for their own upkeep as well as for offspring.  If possible let the partner be from own community speaking same language. Cultural and racial diversity can lead to problems. It is better that couple may be of identical physical standard. And last but least they should be independent.

What is to be avoided to save marriages.

At no time partners should think about separation for individual pleasure and convenience.  They should never have prejudgments and find fault with each other. Never attribute responsibility for misfortunes to partner and own credit for success. They should never entrust the work of conciliation to a third party without communicating with each other. They should never lend their ears to rumors and give opportunity to neighbors and relatives to interfere into their daily life. They should never take up revenge. Avoid flirting and extramarital relations. The physiological reversal and guilty consciousness will drive away all charm from marriage.

In short it is always luck playing its role and if one is cautious and take into consideration above factors, it is possible to avert the misfortune and avoid a divorce.

Career development- selection of course for study

For every child pursuing studies, a time will come to select a course for career development.  After completing elementary schooling, child gets ready to build its career by choosing a right course for higher studies.  All his future depends largely on right selection of the course and only fortunate few achieve it.  So what are the guidelines for choosing appropriate course, the following tips will shed some light.

1)      Parents should never make independent decisions and thrust it upon children.

2)      Children’s tastes should be of prime importance and should be serially set according to priority.

3)      Parents should make wide consultation with friends, relatives and expert career guides and seek their opinion to assess the potential of each course and opportunities it provides.

4)      Once the course is selected, a comparative study of universities conducting the course, their rank and position and acceptability in the market should be made.

5)      The economic aspects, like fee structure and its consistency should be considered before selecting the institution.

6)      If the course chosen is academic, one may explore chances to add in professional color to it by joining affiliate courses simultaneously.

7)      As course selection is primary step towards career development, the present and future trends in the job market should be considered.

8)      Since expenditure incurred in educating the children is most sure and secure way of investment, parents should not hesitate to do it to their best of ability.

To conclude, success in career and life depends on right selection of appropriate course suiting the taste and preference of the student and parents should act their role as guides helping them to achieve their desired targets.  Education expenses are to be considered as long-term investments, which will never go wasted and trusties with whom it is invested ie, the children are sure to benefit by way of more secure future.

How to buy real-estate

Investment in real-estate is a good idea in the wake of inflation and various uncertainties prevailing in the Economy. Though population grows rapidly, the land never grows and the real estate enjoys an ever-increasing demand.  But all land available on earth is not equally good for investment as some are more habitable due to availability of natural resources and better living conditions.  In modern times, people go for readily built living accommodations with all amenities readily available rather than acquiring land and engage in constructing one.  So the concept of flat, villa and apartment is very much in vogue and one should chose his preference depending on the budget.  While selecting one for accommodation or investment purpose, there are different guidelines to be followed.

First of all, the location of the project should be good, free from all disturbances in an agglomeration of progressive thinking communities where peace and tranquility prevail. It should be a fully developed area in respect of infrastructure with healthy surroundings. For example, a living accommodation near fish market or slaughtering house is never favored.  All facilities like school, community hall, hospital etc should not be far away. There can be more conditions depending upon individual choices. 

After selecting location, various projects available there may be surveyed. Now, we can shortlist them depending on the budget. Make negotiations on the purchase price and find out which one is profitable. Seek the help of experts in the field while defining area and size of the tenement , and for the calculation of its cost.  After finalizing entrust the work of documentation to a legal expert.